 is the feeling that someone your own age is pushing you toward making certain choices – whether they be good or bad choices. Peer pressure in regards to underage drinking begins early. One-third of fourth graders and more than half of sixth graders say they have been pressured by friends to drink alcohol. Many people give in to peer pressure for some of the following reasons:
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- Fear of being rejected by the crowd or by a friend
- Wanting to appear older than they are
- Not wanting to hurt someone’s feelings
- Aren’t really sure which choice to make
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- Don’t know how to get out of the situation or how to say “no”
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Everyone has the right to resist and to stand up for their own morals. However, no one should ever feel they can’t say “no”. Be assertive without hurtful. Try saying something like, “No, thanks for offering but I would much rather have a soda with you.” Look them in the eye so they know you are proud of your decision not to drink and the offer to have a soda “with” them will give the person the idea that you care about their decisions too. Above all, be honest. More of your friends will respect you for standing up for what you believe than for giving in to something you personally feel is wrong.
For more information on how to deal with peer pressure, ask your parents. Remember – they were your age once, too! If you aren’t comfortable with that, call us today and we will send out information to help you deal with the situation. |
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